Are You the Center of Your Own Solar System?

I frequently come across people who complain about how selfish the people around them are, as I’m sure you do too. In most cases, they are absolutely right. We can all be self-centered at times and fail to be concerned about one another’s needs. But every once in a while, I come across someone who seems to be pushing the limit to which others are responding to their needs beyond the limit of realistic expectations. They act as if everyone is supposed to be at their beck and call and jump whenever they cry out for

Attention

anything. What we end up doing is making ourselves the center of our own solar system.We make ourselves the sun and expect everyone else to live as planets revolving around us. This is not very realistic, is it? How many people are willing to allow their entire life to revolve around me and my needs? Not too many. I am certain that no one woke up this morning and prayed, “Heavenly Father, help me know what I need to do today to meet Fr. Carrozza’s needs!” It didn’t happen. Neither did anyone pray that prayer about you, and if we are expecting other people to do so, we’re going to be terribly disappointed. Furthermore, if everyone felt that way, we’d all be a bunch of suns expecting other people to be planets revolving around us.

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You can visualize the tension there: everyone is demanding attention and no one is getting it. That for me is a definition of living Hell! But if we place Christ at the center of our solar system, if we let Him be the sun around which we revolve, then we’re all revolving around the same “Son”. We’re all in harmony with each other, everyone going in the same direction, and with Jesus at the center of our lives, we realize that serving Him means serving one another.

 

Christ is the Center

We then will all naturally respond automatically to each other’s needs, everyone will be satisfied, and everyone will be at peace. That to me is Heaven on Earth! During Lent, let’s see if we can figure out whether we revolve around Christ or whether we revolve around ourselves and are expecting others to do the same. Ask Christ to be the center of your life. Ask Him to help you change and make Him the center, and to help you encourage others to do the same. When we do that, we will have harmony, we will have joy, we will have peace!

A blessed Lent to you all!

3 thoughts on “Are You the Center of Your Own Solar System?

  1. Liz says:

    Harmony, joy , peace — sounds perfect. Now, how to achieve that. At one point I found myself worrying more about me than others. It was pointed out to me, lovingly , but still made me very aware of every thought and response that goes through my head. Every action brings an awareness. Just look at the cross, think how Jesus died for us….talk about selflessness and love. We are allegedly growing spiritually when we serve others with sincerity, right? Love your God, love your neighbor. That should put Jesus in; the middle, always.
    Happy Lent Father.

  2. Jean Blair says:

    It upsets me that there is so much hatred in the world today. People must be so unhappy. If more people loved Jesus, there wouldn’t be so much hatred in the world. It’s the me, myself and I generation. Everyone is offended by the everything. Constantly complaining and protesting.

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